Sunday, September 12, 2010

Cancer can be a gift


I was writing an advice column for the longest time but I wanted to do something a little bit different for this post. I would like to write about a personal experience for a change and I hope that you enjoy this story that I am about to share with you.

You may or may not agree with my point of view but I would like to share it with you just the same.

I went through a bought of breast cancer 4 years ago at the age of 37. It was something that I always feared going through and it had become a reality. I had a really hard time of it, the surgery, chemo and radiation were all hard to go through and there were days that I wasn't sure how I would make it through the treatments. Its alot harder than you think it is. I was very lucky though because I had excellent doctors and I had the support of family and friends all through the journey. I also came across some excellent organizations both through the hospital and outside the hospital.

I leaned many things though the journey. I still fear a recurrence of cancer and pray to never have to go through it again in my lifetime.

There are some things that I did take away from the experience: Don't take anyone or anything for granted- life is precious and you never know when you will be faced with a traumatic event. You do find out who your true friends are when you go through an experience such as cancer. Some people can't handle you going through cancer and don't know how to treat you. You are usually better off without these kind of people in your life.

I have also gained a few things out of the experience: I have learned that I would love to be able to take a course in counseling and help others going through cancer as I know how much it means to have someone from outside your inner circle that understands all the fears and concerns. I have also become closer to my family and friends. One of the best things that I gained out of the experience was that I finally met someone special in my life. I was afraid if I met someone that never went through cancer, they wouldn't understand my fears and concerns and all the side effects from the treatments and all. I was lucky enough find a dating site for people that have been through or are going through cancer. I met someone almost 3 years ago and we became engaged last year. I never knew that out of such a horrible experience as cancer something good could come out of it.

In closing , I would like to share the link for the dating website for people that have had cancer or are going through cancer because love will find you when you least expect it: cisforcupid.com

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

One2One On Zane Lewis

For 14 years France has held the EquiBlues Festival. This year it was held in St. Agreve, about 5 hours south of Paris,
in ski country near the Swiss border. Featuring many country artists such as Chris Micheal, Jason Meadows, Hat Trick,
Jackson Taylor, Peter Miles and Zane Lewis just to name a few.
Zane Lewis came to our attention back in June when I ran across his myspace page and I knew One2One had to have an interview with him. He was very forthcoming and we featured an article on Zane n July.
Only a month later and once again, he captured our attention by being invited to the EquiBlues Festival. An important honor.
Le concert de Zane Lewis de St-agrève a été exceptionnel ; c'est la 1ère fois que je le voyais sur scène, et j'ai passé une soirée formidable. ~ Jean Luc of Hooked Dancers

Zane Lewis' concert was an exceptional one! This was the first time that I was on the scene (EquiBlues Festival) and I had an amazing night! ~~ Jean Luc of Hooked Dancers.

In St. Agreve, Zane, as always gives 110% of himself in his performance, captivating his audience with his down south
country rock beat. Wearing a black cowboy hat, black cowboy shirt and rugged jeans he sang favorites, old and new From 'Welcome to the Southland to his latest, Tappa Kegga Beer, and partied on stage with a sizzling energy many wished they could have! The party doesn't stay on stage with Zane though, he brings it to the crowd as well.
During and after his shows.

"C'est vrai que Zane Lewis est un gars formidable qui communique beaucoup avec le public lors de ces concerts..." ~Jean Luc of Hooked Dancers.

It's true that Zane Lewis is an amazing man that communicates with his audience during his shows...."~Jean Luc of Hooked Dancers.

Photos compliments of Zane Lewis and Videos compliments of Jean Luc (Hooked Dancers)
Hooked Dancers perform live line dancing and you can catch them in Barcalona on October 3rd
dancing to Zane Lewis' 'Helleva Time'

One2One With 'The Urban Cowboy'

"It's a little bit of Country with a Hip Hop Twist" .
Never did I think that a musician could combine Hip Hop and Country and come out with a sound so unique, so catching - so innovative. Mikel Knight's growing success is not only because his music is jaw-dropping and eye brow raising but it is equalled by an originality and attention to song structure and content, as well as the public's desire for something new and interesting to listen to in a forever changing music industry. This is what elevates Knight way above the typical musician.
I'm passionate. I'm loyal. And I feel no matter what I'm doing
that I can't be beat..I won't ever stop until I win. My worst trait is my temper, and my lack of patience. I go full speed everyday and that's not always good.

Well, I have to say, going 'full speed' certainly has brought him to where he is now, and at this rate, you'll be catching him on the airwaves in every major city!

O2O: What was the most difficult song you've ever written and why?
M.K.: I can tell you the easiest songs to write are the songs about pain..bad
times, or breakups..mostly because there were alot of those times and
feelings in my past. The hardest songs to write are the hits. Now when I
say hits I mean the songs that get you a record deal..that get you a call
back immediately and from several different labels or decision makers. The
type of song that gets you on several radio stations playlist and or creates
the buzz that changes the zeros in your savings account. To date I have
written 3 of those type of songs. The 1st got me an underground hit in
Japan that made me alot of money, the 2nd got me signed to my first major
deal and several others from 2000 - 2003 and the 3rd was my song Saddle
Up Shawty that helped break my new sound of Urban Country across the
states and across 15 other countries.

O2O: Do you find your recorded songs come out to what you actually heard
in your head?
M.K.: No, sometimes they come out worse..but that happens less and
less in my career. Now a days 95 % of my songs come out better. The
finished product always gives me those goose bumps..that how I know its a
good song that people will love and relate to.

O2O: Who are you listening to these days?
M.K.: I listen to my two favorite genres. Country and Hip Hop. I love them both. I like Jason Aldean, Toby Keith, Trace Adkins, Brad Paisley and of course the greats..Garth and George..I am from Texas. I listen to alot of different hip hop artists from Lil Wayne to TI, but its different with rappers theses days..I dont follow or listen to anyone in particular because I don't
respect them anymore. 98% of them don't stand for anything and have nothing positive to contribute to the world.

O2O:What would be your dream collaboration?
M.K.: Garth Brooks, period

O2O: Do you have any strange writing rituals that you'd like to share with us?
M.K.: Drink Whiskey!


O2O: How does touring/and writing affect your
" normal" life....?
M.K.: Well, I have never been alone but I've never been married. I spend many nights with many interesting people and awesome ladies but becuase I chase my dreams I don't know if I'm building that bond with alot of people to be by my bedside when I die if you know what I mean. I miss my friends and family and my kids alot but this is the life I chose. I want to leave something to them when I go.

O2O: How have you changed or evolved as a musician since this all started?
M.K.: I am a better performer, producer, business man and closer to my goals every day.

O2O: Do you get nervous when you're performing?
M.K.:Only that everyone in my band and every peice of equipment play smoothly and we have the chemistry
necessary to connect with the crowd. That's also my biggest challenge every night. Connecting with a different crowd in a different city each show and making sure I get my point and new sound across correctly.

O2O: Who do you listen to? Who inspires you?
M.K.:See above! lol! No one in particular..not anyone famous. I'm inspired by the average person that saved a life by giving his. War heroes, the child with cancer that doesn't know why he is going to die but goes and fights like a champ even though he can't beat it. Real life triumphs inspire me.

O2O: What is your biggest challenge as a musician?
M.K.:To connect with the fans and let them in on who I am and the things that make me great without letting all the demons I have or the bad things that made up my young adulthood come between that connection.

O2O: How do you overcome that challenge?
M.K.: Stay positive, pray, make goals for my personal life that help me to be a better person and then try and project that on others.

O2O: What's next? What projects are you currently working on?
M.K.:My new single I'm hoping will be # 4 on that hit list I was talking about ealrier. WHISKEY DRINKIN S.O.B is the name. My new promo album - "The Country Rap King vol 2 " which I use to promote my real album- The Urban Cowboy which will be in stores in late 2010. Also my new clothing line Urban Cowboy Apparel, and to continue touring. The Urban Cowboy album and Brand.
come see more at www.MikelKnight.com or www.myspace.com/texasbadboi

One2One With 'Jamie Richards'

If you're looking for a real country sound, then I suggest that you definitely check out Jamie Richards' myspace page. Jamie's take on country music is as timeless as the Mississippi River. From the twangy voice with the natural southern drawl, to the haunting sound of steel guitar and the sassy little bass licks, Richards shares his love for life through music. His songs captures human emotion, with a pure, rich inviting sound.

One must admire his perseverance in keeping country music in it's purist form alive and kicking. His music isn't country rap, country rock or any country mixed. He refuses to compromise on his music. It's country plain and simple, although his lyrics and songs are anything but plain and simple.

Keeping it real has led him to find a secure place in the music industry when the legendary record label in Texas - 'D Records'- was reactivated by Wes Daily in 2000. Daily and Richards got together and produced Jamie's debut album "No Regrets" No Regrets produced 2 Texas Music Chart top 10 singles. He's had more top 10 singles with his later albums, Between These Lines and Drive. 'Anyway you want me' reached number 1 on the Texas Music charts.

O2O: What is your earliest memory of performing? How old were you and to what crowd?
J.R.: 5yrs old singing gospel music with my mother we performed all over okla.in front of small and large crowds

O2O: Where do you find inspiration to write your songs?
J.R.: Most of the songs I have ,come from something that I had been thru.I find it hard to write about things I havent felt.

O2O: Do you have any rituals before a show?
J.R.: Not really,Maybe a shot of Jack Daniels Ha, Ha

O2O: How does touring/and writing affect your " normal " life....?
J.R.: I think it takes that away from me. And thats not always a good thing.

O2O: What is your most memorable show that you've performed, and why?
J.R.: Probably in France in front of 10,000 people, and some of them knew my material.

O2O: Use 3 words to describe yourself? Why did you choose these words?
J.R.: Big Hearted , sarcastic, A thinker. I have been told that alot.

O2O: Please introduce the band and tell us a bit about each and their role & personality
J.R.:
Bass guitar :Dean Crosby he is quiet always ready to help out in any way he can.
Steel Guitar. Haystack Novak A real character who I'd like to kill about half the time.
Drums :Eric Dotson High energy very funny.
Lead Guitar: Clay Shelburn He is brand new , nothing to report yet.

O2O: Do you get nervous when you're performing?
J.R.: Yes i still get a little nervous.

O2O: Which song that you've recorded is your favorite? Why? What is the
meaning behind it?
J.R.: Last Call ,I have always liked the melody.It is something I have been thru.

O2O: -"Back To Being Me" - I'm sure many of us can relate to this song...how
close is this song to you?
J.R.:. Back to being me, Is a song about being in Nashville and not fitting in very well.

O2O: What advice would you give an aspiring singer / songwriter?
J.R.:. Be who you are. dont get in a hurry trying to write a song, Think deep about each line.

O2O: What projects are you currently working on?
J.R.: Writing my next album, hope to be recording soon.

One2One With 'JoRob'.

“I tell you the past is a bucket of ashes, so live not in your yesterdays, nor just for tomorrow, but in the here and now”
-Carl Sandburg

Sometimes the darkness of our yesterdays can cast clouds on our tomorrows. People who endure unusual hardships early in life have two choices: to live bound by the tragedy of their circumstances, or to rise above and break free. Singer JoRob could have easily chosen the first option, having lost his father to a violent crime and being raised in a modest single parent household. Fortunately for the music lovers of the world, he rose above.

More impressive than his remarkable life story, is JoRob’s music. It takes you back to 90’s R&B; remember Jodeci, Dru Hill, and Boyz II Men? Whether he’s singing a ballad or a club banger, the “soul” never leaves his voice. Speaking of club bangers, the song “I’m Your Man Tonight” has chart topping potential. The up-tempo track plays well to hip hop and pop audiences alike. Slower numbers like “You Got My Heart” will appeal to R&B purists (he even goes shirtless in the video, watch out now!).

As JoRob discussed with One2One, DVM is a notoriously difficult market to break into.
The competition is stiff, and the critics are relentless. Despite the odds
being stacked against him, I predict great things in this young man’s future.
JoRob has a diverse repertoire, great stage presence, indomitable work-ethic,
and….he gives great interviews. Read on for One2One’s one on one with JoRob.

O2O: Which song that you've recorded is your favorite? Why? What is the
meaning behind it?
J.R.:Hands down my favorite song of all time is “I Wonder” There was a
lot going on in my life at the time. I really didn’t have a lot of people to talk to about the things that were going on in my life; the only way to really let things off my chest was to write. This song is about a girl who was different from the rest. We eventually split up…Everyone of my songs touch on the real life experiences that everyone has probably had to deal with at least once in their lives.

O2O:Describe a normal day?
J.R.:It seems like everyday is different for me. As of now I’m on my “solo dolo” until I find someone who is really about making change and trying to make major moves.

O2O: What do you consider to be your greatest musical accomplishment so far?
J.R.:I think my greatest musical accomplishment is just being able to change young artists’ lives. I get a lot of artists hitting me up asking me for advice. My goal is to help change lives. There is so much to do…My next goal is to get these older, more experienced people to start helping younger talents as well.

O2O:I know your childhood was rough. When did you know that you wanted to become a singer?
J.R.: I got sick of having so many ideas and dreams, with many people telling me “it’s never going to happen” and looking at me crazy.. I was shy when it came to my singing abilities for a longtime. After awhile singing was an involuntary act for me. Music was probably the only thing that kept me together when I was in school. I could put on some head phones and drift into a different world. When I was in high school I really didn’t know a normal teen’s life. I honestly felt like I was a 30 year old man because of all the responsibilities I had. I know it might sound crazy but I wrote the words “Change the World” on some notebook paper and taped it to my wall so that everyday I woke up it would be the first thing I saw. Becoming a singer is not even one percent of what I want to do. I want to literally change the world and change lives.

O2O: With everything that has happened to you and your family, what kept you on the sane side of life?
J.R.: With my pops getting murdered, moving at least 2 times a year to find reasonably priced places and traveling from DC or MD to go to school in VA; having to live in a constant struggle for quite sometime, I used this to fuel my passion for music. I guess staying busy keeps my mind off of everything. The entertainment industry is nothing close to what you see on TV. It kills you soul and the way you look at a lot of the people in the industry. Being from the DMV area makes things 110 times harder because we get no respect. One of the main problems with this area is that the people who have the answers don’t want to help. I created a network for DMV artists but all are welcome. The URL is http://yourdmv.ning.com

O2O:What is your most memorable show that you've performed, and why?
J.R.: My most memorable show is when I was attending Morgan State and got to perform for the king of Zimbabwe with the Baltimore Symphony. There was a brand new historical museum about to open up in Baltimore for African Americans. I have never seen so many people in my life come to a show. Just to experience something like that took my breath away.

O2O: If you could meet a musician living or dead, whom would it be and why? What about them made you admire their music?
J.R.: If I could meet any musician it would Michael Jackson. You see, Michael Jackson was more than just a musician or artist. Mike was an entertainer. Mike literally changed lives. I would have loved to spend a day with Mike just to take in all of the knowledge this man had.

O2O: What is your best quality? What is your worst?
J.R.: I think my best quality is that I’m going to tell you the truth. I’m about helping those who need it. One of my biggest dreams is to open a mall for small minority business owners. I think my worst quality is I can be too nice at times. In the past I gave people too many chances. I had people use my talent to make them look good. I look at it and it’s kind of funny because they have a lot of people fooled. Another quality I might need to change is not sleeping and working too hard. I probably sleep five hours a day and on the weekend five hours combined. I figure I can sleep when im in my casket.

O2O: How do you deal with disappointment?
J.R.: One way I deal with disappointment is by working harder. At the end of the day I got to keep it moving and not let anyone or anything stop me.

O2O: What’s next? What projects are you currently working on?
J.R.: I’m currently working on a New Album that should be released Mid January. This Album is going to be different from most of my songs. I have Producers like Donnie Brasco, Jonathan Jordan, and Nick baker. There is also a new producer named Marc Anthony. I just got done working with a new clothing line based out of Washington DC called Stocks&Bonds Apparel (http://stocksandbondsapparel.com/), and Celebre Clothing (http://thecelebrecollection.com) you can see their clothing on the I Wonder Music Video. I’m also working with Measurable Odds PR who has played a major roll in my music career. I just shot a video for the I Wonder Sound Track (http://www.JoRobIsMusic.com). I’ve also been reading scripts and putting a new performance package together for the upcoming year. I have a lot on my plate.

One2One With 'Leah West'

While most Canadian musicians end up moving to the United States, Leah West went the other way. This American Singer/Songwriter/ Actress moved to Canada to put herself in our “Vibrant Canadian Music Scene” Although on Leah’s myspace account it’s classified as Rock / Indie/ Pop, I’m really hesitant to place her in a categorized box. West is definitely a surprising listen with an acoustic sound that only adds to her music. She has a unique talent for writing songs with different kinds of melodies, and, each song seems to captivate her audience with seemingly personal experiences. Her seductive high energy vocals can lend credence to the "pop" sound of her music but her melodic vocals lead to a different venue. What a lovely contradiction which remains haunting the listener for days to follow.

Currently working with producer, Marty Rifkin (Bruce Springsteen, Jewel, Tom Petty, Elton John, Dwight Yoakam, Leanne Rimes, and Glen Campbell) Leah West is quickly rising to the top and One2One had the opportunity to interview this artist.

O2O: Do you find there's a limitation to being a female singer in Canada?
L.W.: No I don't think that it's a limitation being a woman at all. Women have a beautiful perspective of the world, totally different from men. We need to embrace both perspectives in order to acheive balance in our society. Also, I think if you are going to be a female artist, Canada is a great place to be. It's a very supportive environment here for all types of music, and all types of artists. I also try to see the opportunities in any given situation. I usually try to look at limitations as simply challenges from which to grow and to try to find the answers to.

O2O: Where do you find your inspiration?
L.W.: Everywhere, literally.
Nature, love, relationships, our spirituality, things of beauty, as well as times of tragedy.
A song is just another way to convey a message or tell a story.
There are lots of stories to tell in this world.

O2O: Which song that you've recorded is your favorite? Why?
L.W.: "Beyond Words" because I knew it wasn't going to be a radio single and I had free reign to make it true to my original spiritual idea without compromising the length or the authenticity. When I wrote it, I knew it was a magical song. And when my producer, Marty Rifkin and I started to lay down the first track of the acoustic guitar, I got chills.

O2O: Who are your influences?
L.W.:Wow, this would be a long, long list, so I'll try to refrain from going overboard.
Sarah McLachlan, Peter Gabriel, Sheryl Crow, Sting, Cat Stevens, Eva Cassidy, U2, Radiohead, Ella Fitzgerald, Simon & Garfunkle, Bruce Springsteen, Leonard Cohen, Loreena McKennitt, Jann Arden, Alanis Morissette, Ennio Morricone, Otis Redding, Damien Rice, Eddie Vedder, and Paula Cole. I grew up playing piano, so a lot of the great classical composers really shaped me, too. I've only recently started playing and writing on guitar, instead of piano. Some amazing new musical discoveries for me are Tom Stinson, Ryan Donn, and Kevin Parent.

O2O: How do you define success?
L.W.: When you find peace in your heart, in your soul, and in your life.

O2O: When did you know that you wanted to become a singer?
L.W.: There's a difference between wanting to sing and becoming a singer.
I've always been singing. According to my parents, when I was a baby I sang more than talked!
I always knew I loved the arts and I've explored a lot of different avenues creatively.
It was when I started to have this giant pile of songs I wrote and realized that I needed to get them out of me. Once I started recording, it was an old question that I finally felt like there was an answer to. I realized how much I needed, not wanted, to sing. It was a necessary step that I just knew I needed to make. I think it's when you can't live without something, it just becomes a part of you. Living without music, for me, is failing to live my life as I was destined to. That's when I became a singer.

O2O: Celine Dion doesn't talk for the day when she is performing...
do you have any rituals before a show?
L.W.: No, I actually talk the day of a show! I used to be a total perfectionist and to a large degree, I still am. But with time and experience, I've learned that there is always a "better", always a "to-do list" and we will die someday with things still left undone. I'm hear to enjoy life, help others and learn. If I get too crazy with perfection, I miss the point. I've learned that most people want something real and passionate, not something sterile and perfect. In general, I try to rest before a show, but sometimes you have to perform on no sleep and let adrenaline and the energy from the crowd carry you. I try to stay hydrated throughout the day and during a performance. I can usually sing for a good 3-4 hours, but after that, I have to really work hard to maintain pitch and energy. I guess I'm pretty laid-back about my regime. Sometimes I drink hot tea and honey, other times I have a glass of wine.

O2O: What do you do for fun?
L.W.: Walk with my dog, hang with friends and family, I like boating, skiing, kayaking, biking. I love being in nature and traveling. I also paint with oils and I love to dance!

O2O: Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
L.W.: I want to put out a few albums. I've written over 150 songs, so I have a lot of albums to record! I would think that I've done a few more tours, and have made a bit of a name for myself in music. I want to earn the respect of my peers. I'd also like to start a family in a few years. No matter what, I hope to always make music for the rest of my life.

O2O: What are the projects that you are working on right now?
L.W.: My next album due out sometime summer 2010.
Planning another tour for 2010 as well.
I learned a lot from my first tour in autumn 2009.
I hope to keep learning, expanding my horizons,
meeting new and interesting people and making music.

One2One With 'Brenda loomis and the Blue Coyote Band

As a hardened hip hop fan, I felt a little flustered when presented with the task of writing about.....country music. Normally my little “writer’s routine” includes several days of connecting to a subject’s music before I write a single word. How was I going to connect with a genre of music that I don’t particularly enjoy? Well, I tentatively clicked the link to the Blue Coyote Band’s MySpace page and pressed play. “Raising My Standards” came on, and my foot began to tap. I looked at my foot and dared it to keep moving. “Later” came on, and that rebellious foot of mine kept tapping. “Big Love” was next, and it spoke to me- soon I was singing “I’ve had enough of losers”. By the time I got to the ballads, I was sold.

Brenda’s voice is telling of a woman who knows something about love. Her smooth, soulful crooning had me singing along like I was at Beyonce concert. The band is equally talented. The true country fans out there seem to agree. Blue Coyote Band has had two number one singles, which are being played on radio stations across the United States and in Europe. This Michigan based band is giving the southern bands a run for their money. One2One’s staff took some time to get to know the Blue Coyote Band and here’s what we found out:]

O2O: Celine Dion doesn't talk for the day when she is performing...
do you have any rituals before a show?
BCB: Yes, I try not to talk very much and I only eat fruits and vegetables, and drink lemon-based non-sugar drinks.

O2O: Please introduce the band and tell us a bit about each and their role & personality.
BCB: Paul is our keyboard player and front man. He’s very witty, personality plus. Our manager Scott also does double duty as drummer. Bob, the lead vocalist and bass player, is very funny and happy-go-lucky. Clay plays lead guitar, saxophone, and rhythm guitar. Clay is thoughtful and ever the professional. Ron, who’s dedicated and technical, also plays lead guitar, steel guitar and harmonica.

O2O: Do you find your recorded songs come out to what you actually heard in your head?
BCB: Most of them.

O2O: What is the largest crowd you've ever performed to?
BCB:25,000 people

O2O: What is your most memorable show that you've performed, and why?
BCB:Fort Loramy, Ohio, opened for a lot of big artists’ three-day long show

O2O: What’s your biggest challenge as a band? What has been your approach in facing that challenge?
BCB:Our strategies are basically appealing to all kinds of crowds, having fun on stage while performing, and interacting with the crowd.

O2O: Many artists taste success and they let it go to their head. How do you keep yourself grounded?
BCB:By remembering that when the lights go down everyone is the same.

O2O: Your band's name is fantastic. How did you come up with that?
BCB:Scott came up with the name. He wanted Coyote Blue, but it was already taken. So... he came up with Blue Coyote Band.

O2O: How do touring and writing affect your “normal " life....?
BCB:It's exciting, but sometimes exhausting. We try to keep the whole family involved.

O2O:You're currently being played on radio stations across America. What's
next? What projects are you currently working on?
BCB: We're currently writing new songs and hoping to record a new CD soon and DVD. The DVD is soon to be recorded in the next few weeks.